Ever notice how we celebrate birthdays with unbridled joy as children, then somehow shift to brushing them off as adults? At 35, I’m reclaiming the magic of celebration and sharing the life wisdom that’s transformed my perspective along the way. Self(ish) Sisterhood Waitlist  Barbados Retreat Waitlist  Thank you for listening to Self(ish) Confidence! If you […]

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Surrendering to life’s seasons requires a special kind of courage that often feels counterintuitive, especially for those of us who crave control. Through my journey of early motherhood, I’ve discovered something profound: when I finally let go of rigid expectations and embrace the natural flow of baby’s timeline, everything feels more magical. This episode explores […]

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[273] The Power of Asking: Why We Need to Voice Our Desires

Struggling with constantly comparing yourself to others? You’re not alone. In this raw and vulnerable episode, I open up about my own battle with comparison during the postpartum period, and how it’s affecting my confidence even as someone who teaches confidence for a living! This episode is your reminder that you are enough. You’re doing […]

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