Surrendering to life’s seasons requires a special kind of courage that often feels counterintuitive, especially for those of us who crave control. Through my journey of early motherhood, I’ve discovered something profound: when I finally let go of rigid expectations and embrace the natural flow of baby’s timeline, everything feels more magical.
This episode explores the unexpected growth that comes when we release our tight grip on life. From navigating postpartum body changes to asking for what we want, I share vulnerable reflections about finding confidence in life’s messy middle. My husband’s career journey began with what his friend called “a terrible voicemail” left for his potential employer—yet fifteen years later, we’re celebrating his service anniversary at that very company. Why? Because he dared to voice what he wanted despite imperfection.
Join me in embracing the beautiful surrender that leads not to giving up, but to finding ourselves exactly where we’re meant to be.
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