The world feels chaotic and overwhelming, leaving many of us constantly seeking external validation and guidance. We scroll through social media looking for answers, ask mentors what to do next, and let influencers dictate our choices—gradually disconnecting from the most important voice of all: our own. In this thoughtful exploration of self-trust, we examine how […]

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[282] Putting your ✨SELF✨ back in Self Confidence

Ever felt like you’re constantly running to catch up with your own life? That pressure building inside when you keep putting yourself on the back burner? You’re not alone. Take a deep breath with me as we explore what I’m calling my “soft mama era” – a season of intentional slowness that’s revolutionizing how I […]

Confidence, Motherhood

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[279] Entering Your Soft Season

Nobody tells you that transformation can happen in the blink of an eye. One year, I was walking away from network marketing into uncertainty; the next, I was speaking on stages and hosting my first retreat. Now, I’ve just completed my fifth Self(ish) Retreat—my first as a new mom—at the stunning Oceanstone Resort in Nova […]

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[278] The Evolution of Selfish Retreats PLUS Motherhood & Entrepreneurship

Struggling with constantly comparing yourself to others? You’re not alone. In this raw and vulnerable episode, I open up about my own battle with comparison during the postpartum period, and how it’s affecting my confidence even as someone who teaches confidence for a living! This episode is your reminder that you are enough. You’re doing […]

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[269] The Myth of Having It All: Comparison, Social Media and Self-Recognition

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