Ever find yourself shopping for a special occasion, staring at a sea of dresses and not feeling quite yourself? That’s where I found myself while hunting for the perfect anniversary dress. It was a moment of self-doubt, a dip in my usual confident levels, and it served as a powerful reminder that our comfort and […]

Confidence, Transformation

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Accepting our ever-changing confidence

Have you ever wondered what it takes to make a BIG life change? Join us for this episode with Jess Jacobs, who went from being a chiropractor to an entrepreneur. Jess’s compelling journey of self-discovery and transformation is filled with insights and emotions, teaching the power of change and resilience. Her career move was inspired […]

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[INTERVIEW] Embracing Change: From Chiropractor to Animal Advocate w/ Jess Jacobs

Ever faced an overwhelming crowd and felt your heart race, or had an idea that needed nurturing but you were too apprehensive to take the next step? Let’s dive straight into the heart of these emotions in this episode of Selfish Confidence. I’m sharing my own personal accounts of wrestling with fear, especially in large […]


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Overcome fear and be a mirror for others

Imagine waking up one day and realizing that your life, all decked up with societal measures of success, seems hollow. That’s exactly what happened to our guest, Cristal, a first-generation college graduate and a school teacher. She had everything one could ask for, but something inside her was missing. This realization stirred up a life […]


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